i have to have something to be obsessive about?
ive got this problem, no matter what, i have to have something to think about night and day, it is always on my mind and no matter what i do it is never far from my thoughts. for a while it was trollbeads and then oilily bags and now its this guy.
the troble is that it runs my life, i cant study i cant concentrate on anything else because it is just there in my brain
any ideas what i can do, cos ive got a ton of college work to do but i just cant get him off my mind
the thing is,if i stop being obsessive about him, something else will come along soon enough and i will become obsessive about it
We used to call it self-control which I guess is a bad word in this modern society. Everyone would like a lot of things but we don’t obsess about them because we reason with ourselves that we will put ourselves in debt and be more miserable.
Or if its a person, that the world does not revolve around us and that the person has reasoning and feelings too, which might not include us in their lives.
You need to look outwards not inwards, look around and see what organizations you can help with all that money you wasted on silly things. Give to a food bank, a shelter, you don’t have to work in them just donate to charities. You can find a volunteer work that does help others you will learn that other peoples needs are more important than your own.
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